Thursday, February 14, 2008

Online Dating: Be Cautious! Part 3

First, you need to find out if the person that you are interested in is married. It is more likely that a man looking for an online romance is married if any of these is true: he won't give you his phone number, he doesn't want you to call him, and he calls you irregularly at times that are convenient for him.So far with our online dating discussions we have looked at ways to tell the married guys from the single guys in the online dating scene. There are many tips you can follow regarding online dating to make sure you have found a legitimate individual.Being reluctant to divulge his phone number is another good indicator that a man is married. The majority of men prefer to give their numbers to the woman so that the woman can contact them without telling their own numbers. They are anxious that the women feel safe and secure with them. Married men, however, want to keep their own numbers a secret. They'd prefer to have yours so that they can call when it's convenient for them. If you've already given a man your phone number, and he still resists giving you his, then most likely he's married.Along with the phone number issue you will find the man's phone calls to be very erratic. He will call late at night, infrequently, or at different times during the day rather than calling you after they get off of work and get home. You should ask yourself about the calls and the time of the calls to determine if he is married. You should also ask why he has only shared a cell phone number with you. Currently most individuals have only cell phones, but a married man with a family will have work and home numbers.

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